How to Have an Attractive Personality

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Having an attractive personality makes a significant impact on one’s life, according to the late Napoleon Hill, who is thought to be one of the great writers on success. “Your personality is your greatest asset or liability. It embraces everything you control, your mind, your body, and your soul.” We will look at several components of a pleasing personality:

  • Positive mental attitude: people must be positive to attract others to them
  • Flexibility: to adapt oneself to any circumstances by controlling emotions and without losing composure
  • Ability to control or direct your energy: having a genuine enthusiasm and fondness for people (especially your guests)
  • Sincerity of purpose: a character quality which cannot be faked; a true and lasting dedication to your definite major purpose in life
  • Pleasing facial expressions: develop the habit of smiling sincerely and frequently to make your personality more appealing to others
  • Pleasing tone of voice: controlling your tone of voice so it carries meaning beyond mere words
  • Appropriateness of words: speak with precision, tactfulness, the habit of doing or saying the right thing at the right time and remaining silent (when not all thoughts should be expressed)
  • Common courtesy in speech and mental attitude: respecting people’s feelings in all circumstances
  • Tolerance: be fair toward those whose opinions, practices, or beliefs are different than yours
  • Versatility: knowing what to talk about, having a wide range of knowledge of people and world events
  • Promptness of decision making: reaching a decision definitely and quickly
  • Keen sense of humor: relax and remain positive, learn to laugh at yourself, helps in adapting to the changing circumstances of life
  • Habit of going the extra mile: doing more than what is required of you, going “above and beyond the call of duty”
  • Patience: under all circumstances remaining patient and understanding of others

An attractive personality can truly make one rich. Rich in friendships, returning guests, and an excellent reputation for hospitality. Thus, according to Mr. Napoleon Hill, an attractive personality is vital to one’s success in life.

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